Hello and welcome back!
I have been thinking about how can I raise my frequency up recently. Your frequency is up when you are having fun.
"What's fun for me...?"
That had been a big question for a long time because I had no idea or forgotten what fun meant to me.
Fun means differently for different people, fur sure. For some, going out to bars and getting drunk. For some, staying and reading books.
I found my fun, finally. (It was sad that I had to think about it, though.)
Finding great lines in movies, especially the ones which inspire me and lead me think about and look at my life deeper.
Here is one of my favorites, The Holiday. If you thought it's just another romantic comedy, you would be surprised.
Iris: An ex-boyfriend who just got engaged and forgot to tell me.
Arthur: So, he's a schmuck.
Iris: As a matter of fact, he is... a huge schmuck. How did you know?
Arthur: He let you go. This is not a hard one to figure out. Iris, in the movies we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady, but for some reason you are behaving like the best friend.
Iris: You're so right. You're supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for god's sake! Arthur, I've been going to a therapist for three years, and she's never explained anything to me that well. That was brilliant. Brutal, but brilliant.
Iris thought she would be able to get away from her problem by physically removing herself from the situation. But it came with her.
The problem will be there even though you're trying to ignore it or face the other way.
What would a leading lady do?