Here is the situation. You had a great and intimate date with a man. You were so excited about a possible new start of a great relationship! Then, he disappeared. Then, 3 months later, he texted you. What does that mean?
Are you still thinking about him? If so, you didn’t go out on enough dates.
Here is the thing. He contacted you now, not because he has come to his senses and wants to start a relationship with you, but because he was lonely and looking for a date to occupy his time!
Do you see the difference?
Don’t waste any time thinking about him because he is a wrong guy for you. He won’t give you what you want, which is a committed, serious relationship! You’re supposed to be out there actively looking for the one for you. Don’t waste any time on THE WRONG GUY!