You might say, “I can’t imagine that far ahead!! You never know what’s going to happen in the future!” You’re right. You won’t know. However, this is what I know.
Your life right now is the result of how you’ve been living your life in the past 3 years. If you keep living your life as you are, you’re living the same life 3 years from now.
If you want to be in a serious relationship or be married in 3 years, you have to start doing things and think differently.
So, choose your next step consciously. Don't just do things like you always do.
You're creating your future now by taking a different step than you took before.
I know your friends and family want to give you advice because you’re single. We get that they want to help you because they love you. It could be a little annoying, but before dismiss ALL the advice, you need to choose which advice you want to take and from whom.
If your single friends want to give you advice on relationships and dating, be objective and see if she has a good track record in that department. Is she in a serious relationship, or engaged right now? And see if she is comfortable in her own skin and is genuinely happy about her relationship.
How about your married friends? Are they happily married? I understand that she sometimes want to vent about her husband, but is she genuinely happy with her marriage?
Don’t ever get involved in a conversation to put down men, relationships, love and marriage! You don’t need any negativity to fight off when you’re trying to find the love for yourself.