4th of July is around the corner.
In New York City, there will be fireworks on the East River.
When I was single, I hated any holidays because it reminded me how lonely I was when many couples are celebrating holidays together.
Feeling lonely is something you want to avoid, isn’t it?
There are so many ways to avoid that feeling.
Long phone calls with your girlfriends, hanging out at bars, trying new restaurants, spending long hours at work, working on weekends, going to parties and getting drunk, looking for events you feel you belong somewhere or to someone.
Feeling sad or lonely is not all bad because it reminds you why you are trying to find love.
When you go home after a long day at work, isn’t what you want someone who hugs you and tells you something sweet and comforting so that you feel better?
Don’t you want to go to friends’ BBQ parties as a couple so you don’t have to convince yourself that you’re okay being single?
Don’t be afraid to those feelings!
So, what you going to do about it?